IIT/JEE Walk by Fire: Not for my Babies
Apparently, Quest Tutorials (based in Delhi) arranged 'a firewalk' (yes no kidding, literally) to remove barriors from the mind of the future JEE aspirants that join their coaching.
Before I do anything else, let me give you a blog link to Quest Tutorial's own blog. I have sat through one session (because it was held at a place where I used to work) of this chap Anuj Khare and I thought the session was decent. There were times when I argued, like he was going ga-ga about 'The Alchemist' and I was telling him I was not that impressed by the book. But never did I think the guy was associated with JEE coaching and all.
We do not know if parents were informed or not about this trial by fire as reported, but let me say more as a parent/guardian of my two nephews. My elder nephew has written JEE this year again and he and his younger brother live with us. My younger nephew has declared he is going to study commerce and it is fine by us. The elder one wanted to give JEE and took a year drop, that too is fine by us. If he gets through, good for him. If he doesn't he will do other things and I am sure he will do even better in life. He has worked like a maniac and I feel it is more than enough, irrespective of he gets through or not. I do not want to see him this stressed for another day. For us, and hopefully for him, it is just another exam, a tough one, but they (the younger one too, or if he reads this, he will blackmail me for favoring the elder one) are the apple of my eyes, irrespective of he gets through JEE or not. I am only worried about one thing, that he will take it to his heart (at least for a while) if he does not get through and I (we) have a tough job of making him forget it. If he gets through, I will remind him not to buy all the hype about being the 'cream of the country' and all that crap. I would like it if he just continue being the normal guy he is, with a good sense of humor.
If anyone told me that a coaching institute would introduce 'a walk by fire' to aid him in this process (as if there is already not enough madness involved!) I would get hopping mad. Leave my kids alone! Walk by fire? Are we crazy? What for? To get through JEE? Are we (the parents) mad? And, heaven forbid, if this exercise was done without my knowledge, as said in the newspaper story, I would be out of my mind.
And if it is as easy as the owners of the Quest Institute claim, if it can be reduced to some trick, I do not want my babies to be reduced to 'performing monkeys' for the sake of sacred JEE.
For my kids, aur bhi hain raahen.